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Today, my friends, we are talking about a topic entitled: Appreciate yourself and find appreciation from others
. We have previously talked about topics about self-esteem, whether in its concept and meaning or from the perspective of taking care of yourself, knowing your value, and not being complacent about yourself
But today we are talking from the perspective that you will not find appreciation from others as long as you do not value yourself as you deserve, because simply if you do not give yourself the right and appreciation and with whatever you are satisfied with, like someone who leaves his sail to the wind and directs his ship wherever he wants, if he crashes into a rock, he is destroyed, or is finished. Anchoring the ship on land. No, my friend, and the phrase (you are satisfied with anything) does not mean that you have a tolerant and kind soul. No, I mean its bad meaning is that you accept anything that is thrown at you, and if you are not the actor in your life, you live your life as if you are a compass performing the task
You play a silent role and others play a starring role in your life, but you must be the hero of your life and your story. You know your weaknesses and strengths, and strengthen your weaknesses. You are confident that you can be and live the challenges of your life, even if you are alone in the middle of the desert.This feeling and strength will come to you from the strength of your belief and your trust in God Almighty, your God and Creator. If you truly believe in Him, you will know that He will not abandon you. When He placed in you your dream for something, He gave you powers and capabilities that you can achieve with it, even if worldly reasons are non-existent. until you attain that thing, for the Lord of all things and your Lord is able to bring it to you
This is not pure talk or trivial talk that is only delivered to people’s ears. No, by God. Rather, it is at the heart of our true religion. In the holy hadith. The Lord of Glory says what it means. (I am according to my servant’s belief in Me. If good is good, and if evil is evil.) And he says in another hadith, in what it also means (If the servant obeys his Lord, the world comes to him unwillingly, that is, against his will, and God pleases him with whatever He wills, and vice versa, if he turns away from pleasing God Almighty, everything flees from him, even if it is A blessing has become a curse and a burden for him.)
Now, my friends, are there still those among you who think that my words are just fantasy and unverifiable human development talk
I say no way, just trust your Lord and know that you have value and greatness as well, because God Almighty made you his successor on earth and not any other creature, and if you had no role in life, then it is certain that you would have died or were not created in the first place. God forbid that something should be done without His knowledge, since He forbade it
But you must know that no one will appreciate you as long as you do not give yourself the appropriate appreciation
For example, a person always takes on the role of a clown and makes jokes, even at himself, in every gathering of friends. What will his friends’ opinion of him be? They will call him a fool and a fool, and he will not be held accountable. If they come for a serious matter and want to get opinions, he will not be taken as a trustworthy person, if he is asked at all
God gave an example of a man who is dependent on his wealth. Wherever he turns, he does not bring forth any good. And an example of a man who spends day and night. The truth is said in the Qur’an that they are not equal, that is, there is no comparison between them. The former is a burden and brings problems and is of no benefit to him, while the latter is of benefit to himself and to those around him
Accordingly, choose in which category you want to be: someone who has no benefit or someone who values his opinion and benefits himself and others
But beware, for each of them has a tax and a price, that is, a blessing. When you become a person of stature and has prestige and dignity, this has a price and you must pay it, and to establish a value for yourself among people, this requires work and effort. Appreciation will not come to you, whether from yourself or from others, without a reason. You must have achievements and work to serve yourself and people, success and effort, and all this price must be paid
Even those who are useless pay the price for their indifference to their lives and wasting life and opportunities to be much better than they are
In the end, appreciate and know yourself so that others can appreciate you
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